By Shirley, on February 14th, 2020% Something to think about
“Even after all this time, The sun never says to the earth, ‘You owe me.’ Look what happens with A love like that. It lights the whole sky.” –Hafiz of Persia
Reflection
I live at the foot of Mt. Seymour in North Vancouver. Just minutes out my front . . . → Read More: A love like that
By Shirley, on February 14th, 2019%
A new meaning for this special day
Valentine’s Day for me is inextricably linked to the birth of my daughter. I went into labour February 14, 1989 while watching an episode of Thirtysomething and eating take-out pasta. That was the most Valentine’s Day excitement I could handle in my very pregnant state.
As we . . . → Read More: Celebrate the people you love
By Shirley, on February 14th, 2013% “Relationship skills do not come with genes, they come with practice.” — Harville Hendrix
THE THREE C’S THAT COST YOU LOVE AND KILL ROMANCE
In my work with clients and in my own relationships, I’ve seen over and over again the destructive power of these three behaviours:
1) Criticizing 2) Comparing and 3) Capitulating
These . . . → Read More: 3 Obstacles to Love & How to Transform Them
By Shirley, on November 6th, 2012% “You block your dream when you allow your fear to grow bigger than your faith.” — Mary Manin Morrissey
Preventing a repeat of the past
Many single and divorced men and women, who are dating and looking for a new relationship, harbour fears that they will repeat negative patterns from their past relationships. This is . . . → Read More: Dating Preparedness: How to make smart choices & avoid a repeat of the past
By Shirley, on July 6th, 2012% I recently read a definition of love that really captivated me and validated my own experience in a long-term marriage. I came across this definition in a book review in the Economist magazine (Truly, madly, deeply).
The book, In Praise of Love is based on a conversation between French philosopher Alain Badiou and French journalist . . . → Read More: Love is a commitment to live life from two perspectives
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